It is worth questioning the non-monogamist as to the truth of the claim that he is “not rejecting romance, loyalty, sacrifice, commitment, or love." What makes a non-monogamist think these features can be preserved?
When I discuss open relationships with people, after initial uneasiness, I usually hear some variation of “I don’t have any problem with open relationships as a concept. It just isn’t for me.”
I want to show why that is wrong. Open relationships are for everybody.